Bowing in Japan: what visitors should actually do
How deep, when, and why a small nod beats an over-enthusiastic bow.
Avoid these
Over-bowing
No need for deep dramatic bows. A small head nod is plenty for everyday thanks.
Forcing handshakes
A bow is the default. Don’t insist on handshakes or go in for a hug.
Big gestures & volume
Loud, sweeping greetings feel out of place. Keep it calm and warm.
Answering “irasshaimase”
Staff call out “irasshaimase!” the moment you walk into any shop, cafe or konbini. It’s a welcome, not a question — no reply is expected. A small nod is plenty.
Do exactly this
A little nod
A gentle head bow with “arigatou” covers almost everything.
“Sumimasen” is magic
It means sorry / excuse me / thank you — your all-purpose opener.
Set the tone
Starting something? Use the phrase below — it opens every door.
The phrase locals love
よろしく
yoroshiku!
“Nice to meet you / I’m counting on you.” The full polite form is “yoroshiku onegai shimasu” — meeting people, starting a meal, or asking a favour. Say it and you instantly fit the rhythm.
📍 starting anything with someone