Nihon Mode Open in the app →
🙏 Etiquette & Places

Bowing in Japan: what visitors should actually do

How deep, when, and why a small nod beats an over-enthusiastic bow.

Avoid these

  1. Over-bowing

    No need for deep dramatic bows. A small head nod is plenty for everyday thanks.

  2. Forcing handshakes

    A bow is the default. Don’t insist on handshakes or go in for a hug.

  3. Big gestures & volume

    Loud, sweeping greetings feel out of place. Keep it calm and warm.

Do exactly this

  1. A little nod

    A gentle head bow with “arigatou” covers almost everything.

  2. “Sumimasen” is magic

    It means sorry / excuse me / thank you — your all-purpose opener.

  3. Set the tone

    Starting something? Use the phrase below — it opens every door.

The phrase locals love

yoroshiku!

“Nice to meet you / I’m counting on you.” The full polite form is “yoroshiku onegai shimasu” — meeting people, starting a meal, or asking a favour. Say it and you instantly fit the rhythm.

📍 starting anything with someone